- Acting Conservatory
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- BA, Psychology
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- MFA, Writing & Contemporary Media
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- Former Army Medic
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- Co-Director, Project 22 (PBS)
I spent a decade sitting in the dark so my daughter could fall asleep.
Not because I had to. Because I knew what bad sleep could cost her, and I already knew that cost personally.
My name is Matt. I'm a dad, a combat veteran, a conservatory-trained actor, and the co-founder of River Sleep. The other co-founder is my daughter. She's still in elementary school.
Sleep has defined my life in ways I'm still understanding. From childhood through my years as a combat medic, through everything that followed, I spent decades searching for rest and finding only coping mechanisms. It wasn't until 2024, after finally asking for help, that I discovered sleep therapy was even a thing. What I built from that experience changed everything: a toolkit of habits, routines, and science-backed practices that I now protect fiercely. I finally sleep.
That journey made me determined to give my daughter something I never had: a childhood built around healthy sleep.
For the first ten years of her life, I sat with her every single night until she fell asleep. We read stories. We tried meditations. We worked through every sleep app and YouTube channel we could find. I heard every one of them, because I was always in the room.
And I noticed everything. Narrators who couldn't hold a child's attention. Music that stimulated more than it soothed. Apps that crashed mid-session. Meditations that described candy and food so vividly that she'd end up hungry instead of sleepy. Good intentions, poorly executed, or built for engagement rather than rest.
When she was 10, she took a trip with her mom and asked me to record the next chapters of the book we were reading together and send them to her. That was the seed.
A year later, deep into our homeschool life together, we started building an app. Not as a business, but as a project. She gave prompts in Cursor, chose color schemes, suggested features, and tested everything by actually using it to fall asleep at night.
One morning she came downstairs with a note: the ambient tracks were playing too abruptly after the meditation. The transition was jarring. She was right. That fix (ambient tracks that fade in gently at the end of every queue) became one of the app's defining features. It inspired the Bedtime Stack: a daily rotating playlist of one story, one meditation, and one looping ambient track, so parents never have to scroll and make decisions at 8pm when everyone is already exhausted.
She named the app, too. “River” came from a list she wrote, mostly nature references, a reflection of the life we share: camping, hiking, being outside together. It felt right. We kept it.
The narration in River Sleep is mine, and that's not incidental. I trained as an actor at conservatory level and have spent years doing professional voiceover work. I understand how a voice moves through a room, how pacing and breath can guide a child gently toward sleep rather than keeping them alert. When I record, I warm up first. I use technique. I care about the difference between a narration that works and one that almost works.
The content itself comes from somewhere similar. I have an MFA in writing and a lifelong relationship with stories, which is part of why we chose timeless classics, and part of why the meditations are built the way they are. Every theme, every journey, every character serves the sleep.
And the science underneath all of it comes from my background as a combat medic trained to care with compassion (that was my motto in service), combined with real research and my own hard-won experience with sleep health. The dark interface isn't aesthetic preference; it's biology. The meditation techniques aren't borrowed from wellness trends; they're grounded in what actually works.
River Sleep is what I would have wanted the night I was sitting beside a sleeping child, phone in hand, waiting. It's built for parents: dark, calm, minimalist, science-informed. No melatonin-disrupting brightness. No flashy child-facing UI. No forms asking your kids to enter their names and data. Just the tools you need, at the moment you need them.
It's also calm and clear enough for kids old enough to navigate it themselves when you can't be there. And it includes tools for you too: meditations, breathing exercises, and NSDR tracks. Because you're still a person after bedtime.
We're a small family business. No investors, no data harvesting, no attention economy. A premium product from people who use it every night.
We are a dad and his daughter. And we are part of your village.
Every night, when you open the app, we've got bedtime.
- Matt & his daughter
What's in the app
The meditations are built around themes: History, Nature, and Mythical. In History, children travel back in time to meet figures like Leonardo da Vinci and Mary Anning. In Nature, they learn real science by following animals on their journeys. In Mythical, they swim with mermaids and explore enchanted forests. Every meditation weaves vocabulary and knowledge into guided relaxation techniques (progressive muscle relaxation, breathing exercises, and body scans) so children are learning even as they fall asleep.
The stories are timeless classics. A.A. Milne. Beatrix Potter. Rudyard Kipling. Read aloud the way they were meant to be: by a parent, to a child, at bedtime.
The ambient sounds (brown noise, rain, ocean waves, classical music) are designed to play all night. No ads interrupt them. No algorithm decides what plays next. You choose, and the app stays out of the way.
And there's a Parent's Corner, because once the kids are asleep, you're still a person. Adult meditations, NSDR tracks, breathing exercises, puzzles, and articles about children's sleep.
River Sleep is from our family to yours. We hope bedtime gets a little easier.